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Monday, December 28, 2009

What is your kink?

Last week's poll was "What's your kink?" The nice people who come to visit "Sex'n'Fries" let us know what their kink was.

Results from our visitorsBondage 18%
Swinging 13%
Porn 59%
Rabbit Fur 0%
Orgies 22%
Nothing I am normal 13%
Toys 27%
Voyeurism 36%

Observations
Well clearly our visitors are more the stay at home perverts that watch porn and watch the neighbors. Imagine them sitting there watching John Holmes and eating the biggest fries they could get their hands on. With a set of binoculars at their side for whenever their hands happen to be free to peer out and catch that naughty neighbour doing their dishes in the buff...(it could happen)

Bondage
There are different degrees of bondage and each couple or person will have their own personal appreciation for 'bondage'.
Private bondage or bedroom bondage, is used in foreplay. Some couples involve in fantasy where bondage plays a vital role. The use of bondage by couples in their homes tends to be different from that associated with bondage in (for example) a BDSM dungeon, where bondage may be an end in itself with no sexual contact at all and is often combined with infliction of pain.

Bondage erotica uses the costumes, garments and scenarios of role playing and fantasy. Depictions of bondage in art may be erotic, in which case they would tend to depict a young woman in danger and fear, and some are BDSM in style.

Swinging (Swingers)
In the '70's going to a "key party" or some kind of hush hush party where swapping is involved was the way of the "swinger" The lifestyle these days is more broad and allows couples to define their own 'swinger' levels. From same room sex to full out naked piles of sweating people. The game and lifestyle is a whole other 'ball' game. There is actually an association to promote the positive images of alternative lifestyles.

PornPornography may use any of a variety of media, ranging from books, magazines, postcards, photos, sculpture, drawing, painting, animation, sound recording, film, video, or video game.

Rabbit Fur
Now I hope no one actually looked this up, I just threw it in there for fun. I am so glad no one actually voted on it...I would really need to talk with them..no clue how to get kinky with rabbit fur. Nah..I don't want to know.

Orgies
While group sex has always been practiced in many cultures across the world, it wasn't until the 1960s that advocates of group sex first brought recreational (as opposed to purely ritual) group sex into the public consciousness of the Western world. One of the more sought after porn niches, whether someone actually is involved in an orgy or not, a large percentage of people like to watch and are aroused by the fantasy of group sex.

Nothing "I am normal"
Honestly I do not believe you, I just think because there was no "other" option this is what you selected. We can all define "kink" to suit our own desires.

Toys
It was not very specific in defining toys, but I hope the people that selected "toys' were thinking of "sex toys" and not something like a slinky or model train....just saying!

Voyeurism
Can be defined as the sexual interest in spying on people that are engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, having sex or other activity that would be usually considered private in nature. The term is used in a more general sense also to refer to someone who observes others without their knowledge, and there is no necessary implication of any sexual interest.

Voyeurism (from the French voyeur, "one who looks") can take several forms, but its principle characteristic is that the voyeur does not normally relate directly with the subject of their interest, who is often unaware of being observed.






3 comments:

  1. Yes, this is added useless information, but I'm gonna write it anyway. Your list was rather sparse. My kinks were not included. My primary is spanking, second is ass worship and they continue but I won't.
    Thanks

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  2. I must admit...I'm a fan of swinging!

    ~WM

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  3. Get me drinking, I'll take the whole list...

    Secretia

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