Duration of foreplay in marriages, (from sexual histories):
11% of marriage histories, foreplay lasted 3 min.
36% of marraige histories, foreplay lasted 4-10 min.
31% of marriage histories, foreplay lasted 11-20 min.
22% of marraige histories, foreplay lasted more than 30 min,
18.5% of males and 20.7% of females reported foreplay of 3-7 minutes in marital coitus
19.5% of males and 21.2% of females reported foreplay of 8-12 minutes
19.1% of males and 13.8% of females reproted foreplay of 13-17 minutes
In descending order of techniques of foreplay in marital coitus, Kinsey found:
simple lip kissing (99.4%);
manual stimulation of female breast (98%);
manual stimulation of female genitalia (95%);
oral stimulation of female breast (93%);
manual stimulation of the male genitalia (91%);
deep kissing (87%);
oral stimulation of the female genitalia (54%);
oral stimulation of the male genitalia (49%),
Would it be the same in present times?
Foreplay is a personal preference, to each their own. Everyone wants it a certain way and for a certain length of time.
Are men really different than women...does a man not want a woman wet before diving in? Does a woman not need to be felt appreciated all over before 'wham'..."Thanks babe"?
Know what she likes and you have it made....sex is for two (some like more)you have to be on the same side. Foreplay should not be a chore but enjoyed by all parties. Practice makes perfect I suppose.