No you may not roll over and enter

The foreplay questionsAlfred Kinsey's 1948 and 1953 Studies

Foreplay
Duration of foreplay in marriages, (from sexual histories):
11% of marriage histories, foreplay lasted 3 min.
36% of marraige histories, foreplay lasted 4-10 min.
31% of marriage histories, foreplay lasted 11-20 min.
22% of marraige histories, foreplay lasted more than 30 min,

Comparative data:
18.5% of males and 20.7% of females reported foreplay of 3-7 minutes in marital coitus
19.5% of males and 21.2% of females reported foreplay of 8-12 minutes
19.1% of males and 13.8% of females reproted foreplay of 13-17 minutes

In descending order of techniques of foreplay in marital coitus, Kinsey found:
simple lip kissing (99.4%);
manual stimulation of female breast (98%);
manual stimulation of female genitalia (95%);
oral stimulation of female breast (93%);
manual stimulation of the male genitalia (91%);
deep kissing (87%);
oral stimulation of the female genitalia (54%);
oral stimulation of the male genitalia (49%),

Would it be the same in present times?
What exactly can be included in foreplay?
How much foreplay do you want?
What types of foreplay are there?

Foreplay is a personal preference, to each their own. Everyone wants it a certain way and for a certain length of time.

Are men really different than women...does a man not want a woman wet before diving in? Does a woman not need to be felt appreciated all over before 'wham'..."Thanks babe"?

Know what she likes and you have it made....sex is for two (some like more)you have to be on the same side. Foreplay should not be a chore but enjoyed by all parties. Practice makes perfect I suppose.

8 comments:

  1. Honestly, I want as much foreplay as I can get, I'll not wait to have some orgasms, but I will have more of them this way.

    Secretia

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  2. I'm not sure that women (or men?) want the same thing for the same length of time - as a generallity, I think lovers want different things at different times (depending on mood and all sorts of things) - imagination and inventiveness are the keys (given the will to bother at all, that is).

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  3. My 3rd ex-husband's idea of foreplay was this, "Roll over and let me stick it in". Romantic, huh?

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  4. Even if every minute of foreplay isn't loved, it should be lovingly gifted. Long foreplay (or as one author calls it, "moreplay") can mean dependable orgasms for the woman. And dependable orgasms for the woman can mean dependable, reliable access for the man. Cappeesh, dudes?

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  6. I love kissing, I love foreplay..

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