Fantasy can be a very powerful aid in arousal, orgasm and stress relief from everyday trials.
A fantasy should be your own, not all the time, but in times of your solo sexual pleasure.
Enjoy your mind and desires as your body feels all the pleasure you give it. Allow yourself to dream as it were. No guilt, no stress, dare to be a great lover with the secret passions you have wanted to try. Imagine yourself as the giver and the receiver of such things that you now have the power to do through your fantasy.
It has been known for woman to have orgasms by fantasy alone, without touching at all. The power of fantasy is truly personal and within you. Take yourself to a part of your life that you will experience alone, and enjoy your secret world.
Sometimes sharing your deepest desires is difficult if the other person is not on the same page. Telling your partner that you fantasize about being involved in an orgy might offend them and put them off. Couples can bring jealousy into the mix and actually be threatened by one's fantasies. Everyone has fantasies and they can be mild to wild, but unless you know others will appreciate and understand it, just keep it to yourself.
There is no shame in fantasy, the sexperts have studied and wrote many papers on the subject.
The mind, after all, is the body' most fertile erogenous zone. In fact, it's been discovered that sexually dysfunctional men and women rarely have erotic fantasies during foreplay, sex and masturbation. These people may consciously squelch thoughts because they feel guilty or embarrassed. Women who have never had an orgasm are taught by sex therapist to indulge in their erotic fantasies to become orgasmic.
Top 10 female sex fantasies
10 domination, her dominating a man
9 domination, you dominating her
8 teacher/student role play
7 sex with a stranger
6 threesome with another woman
5 threesome with two men
1 private dancer
Top 10 male sex fantasies
10 sex with two women
8 receiving oral sex
7 anal sex
4 sexual ravaging
3 school girl
2 sex with a stranger