Even the not-so romantic and cuddly types like myself don't mind being swept off their feet once in awhile.
Yes it is true, I have no problem with wham bam thank you...clean up and go sleep.
I am not much into eye gazing, gentle kisses and sweat nothings but then again.....it may not be "my thing" or even something I would request or go after. Yet again....everyone needs a hug, a nod and a small piece of aw. Something that heightens the special feelings; the gesture of support and the reassurance that there is something awesome between you.
Ways to really show your romantic side:
- A single flower is always good, there is something intimate about the ‘one’. The whole bouquet can be over done and a little like a birthday…everyone has one.
- The post it note, not too often and never a ritual. Leaving a post-it note somewhere in the house, office, lunch box, car. Just a simple love note or even a dirty suggestion or even a giggle or compliment. Random and fun, if it is done too much or becomes predictable like the bedtime “I love you” well you get the point…..
- The surprise naked man in the hall way or anywhere for that matter. A flash of naked is a nice reminder of how connected you really are. Nothing says how much you love someone than trusting them with your dignity. No words needed, just here I am in all my glory.
- Candles, music, the warm bubble bath, going out of your way to pamper is a great way to say “I got your back and everything is great” Different little details each time makes it obvious that you put some thought into it and didn’t use what was convenient.