Showing posts with label Is it just me? Mental Health Podcast Episode. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Is it just me? Mental Health Podcast Episode. Show all posts

Episode 5: Stop faking it, it is a waste of time.

 

A quote from Dr. Seuss Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.

We are surrounded by self-help and inspirational quotes these days that all can make your head spin. 

 

Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your inner voice. And, most important, dare to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. ~Steve Jobs, Founder of Apple


We all search for understanding and knowledge dailyHowever, we also will put on a mask to interact with others because we want to be polite, not hurt anyone's feelings, bow to authority, or not want to expose our true selves because we do not trust them.


Unmask the authentic self

Weeks before my mom passed away, I sat beside her, took a deep breath, and said, "I have no problem dealing with everything right now, and I have the strength to be here now, but I do not know how I will live without you." The heavy doses of pain meds had started to take a very noticeable toll on her. Finally, she looked at me without expression and said, "You just do."

There was nothing left to say right then. But, three simple words stuck with me after months and now years (going on three). YOU JUST DO!


 I was recently unsure what I have 'just do every day. 


Again, the self-help books I was diving into were just a distraction, and I felt nothing stuck.  


That was the big one. "What the hell was my problem? What HELP was I looking for? If I was looking for my SELF, how did I lose myself in the first place?

Things that helped me start to heal (my way)  

*Stop waiting for motivation. Just do…do it scared, do it honestly, do it from the heart, do it because you want to. 




Episode 2: How Mental Are You?


We are starting a conversation about mental illness. 


Where do I start? How do I know where I fit into this mess of the mind? Should I talk about it at all?


Mental illness is a topic that is tough to talk about. 









So I did on the podcast. 


Episode 2: How Mental Are You?   


That is what the podcast is for, to talk about things that are hard to talk about. Since it is Episode 2 and I am still learning, it is a bit choppy, and the sections are all over, and you can hear the bird in the background. It is natural, though, right out there. I have an issue with editing because if I keep doing it, there would be a beginning and end and nothing in between. 


Welcome to mental illness, the conversation that has to go past a simple sentence. You have to commit to that conversation. 


You can't just say, "Hey, I have a mental illness," and leave it there. You have some explaining to do. People should not fill in the rest because you will be avoided or come off crazier than you are. 

Although I discuss mental illness on the podcast, I would put some more information here and some resources. 


Why is it so hard to talk about mental illness from both sides of the fence? 

Mental illnesses may be caused by a reaction to environmental stresses, genetic factors, biochemical imbalances, or a combination of these. In addition, mental health problems may be related to excessive stress due to a particular situation or series of events. Mental illnesses are often physical as well as emotional and psychological. 


There are more than 200 classified forms of mental illness. Some of the more common disorders are depression, bipolar disorder, dementia, schizophrenia, and anxiety disorders.


www.mhanational.org


What is some mental illness?


ADHD

Anxiety Disorders

Bipolar Disorder

Borderline Personality Disorder

Depression

Dissociative Disorders

Eating Disorders

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

Posttraumatic Stress Disorder

Schizoaffective Disorder

Schizophrenia


RELATED CONDITIONS

Anosognosia

Dual Diagnosis

Psychosis

Self-harm

Sleep Disorders

Suicide

There are five major categories of mental illnesses:

Anxiety disorders

Mood disorders

Schizophrenia and psychotic disorders

Dementia

Eating disorders


It's important to remember that each condition can vary significantly from person to person. https://share.upmc.com/


These conditions can alter your ability to relate to other people, work, and attend school, preventing you from living an everyday life. In addition, different types of mental illness offer different experiences, and symptoms may vary from person to person, even when they share the same diagnosis.


All mental illnesses share this in common: they are associated with significant distress or interfere with a person's ability to function.


www.healthyplace.com 


Stigma makes you silent and alone.


Everyone knows a little about mental health issues, but knowing the facts can help you educate others and reject stigmatizing stereotypes. They are not the result of personal weakness, lack of character, or poor upbringing. Understanding mental health isn't only about being able to identify symptoms and having a name for conditions but dispelling false ideas about mental health conditions as well.


https://www.nami.org/stigmafree 


Types of Stigma


Stigma is when someone negatively views a person because they have a mental health condition. Some people describe stigma as a feeling of shame or judgment from someone else. 

The stigma associated with mental illness can be divided into two types: social stigma, which involves the discriminatory attitudes that others have around mental illness, and self-perceived stigma, which involves an internalized stigma that the person with the mental illness suffers from. 


It has been found in a long-term study that this sort of internalized stigma leads to poorer treatment outcomes.



A review of studies on the public stigma of mental illness shows that it is still widespread, even as the public has become more aware of the nature of different conditions. While the public may accept a condition's medical or genetic disposition and the need for treatment, many people still have a negative view of those with mental health conditions. Stigma harms the 1 in 5 Americans affected by mental health conditions. It shames them into silence and prevents them from seeking help.


https://www.verywellmind.com/mental-illness-and-stigma-2337677 


Even though most people can be successfully treated, less than half of the adults in the U.S. who need services and treatment get the help they need.


The average delay between the onset of symptoms and intervention is 8-10 years.

Suicide is the second leading cause of death for youth aged 15-24 and the tenth leading cause of death for all Americans.


Educating is excellent; reading about it is okay. So talk about it now, even if it is the hardest thing you do.