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📝Affirmatives That Don’t Suck: A Midlife Pep Talk. Sex'n'fries Podcast Episode 20
Confession Time: I’ve Ignored Affirmations Most likely, I’ve tossed affirmatives to the side — thinking, “Ugh, who has time for this fluff?” They seemed like a waste of my time. Yet, every once in a while, I jump on the bandwagon and douse myself in them. And you know what? They work. But maybe not in the way the self-help books promised. The Affirmatives I Actually Use Forget the soft, sugary lines you find in every Instagram post. My affirmatives have attitude: “You can do


🪞Self-Image and Confidence – Do Men Struggle Too?
We’ve all heard the jokes—men worrying about baldness, women stressing over the size of their butt in a new pair of jeans. But when it comes to advice about self-confidence, awareness, and body image, most articles are directed at women. So, what about men? Would the same guidance benefit them in the same way? Do men need their own pep talks, different from the advice often aimed at women? Facing Fears and Body Image Challenges One common suggestion for improving self-image i


💄Becoming Your Pin-Up Girl: Embrace Your Inner Sexiness
With lips painted in shades of red, cherry, pink, or cinnamon, a woman's softly pouted lips convey desire. Adorned with silks, lace, feather boas, pearls, and heels, with hair in glamorous curls or delicately draped over bare shoulders, her rosy cheeks and beautifully enhanced lashes complete the look. Viewed by admiring eyes, the reflection she desires embodies sexiness and beauty. When a woman feels confident and stunning, she embodies her inner pin-up girl . Throughout his


🧠Facing Depression: A Personal Conversation. Sex'n'fries Podcast Episode 6
Depression is one of those topics that’s difficult to put into words. It’s easier to stay at a distance, to nod along to the conversation without fully engaging. Awareness is the first step, but how do we make it personal? How do we talk about our own depression ? Recording my latest podcast episode was surprisingly easy. Speaking into a microphone about my experiences felt natural. But publishing it? That’s when the real anxiety hit. Sharing your inner world invites opinions


🫦Sex Is Health: Don’t Put It on the Back Burner
Hot, sexy, steamy, erotic, romantic… are these the words you’d use to describe your sex life? Wet, sweaty, hard, exotic… maybe these? Or dark, cozy, normal, over… is that more accurate? A few words can tell a thousand stories. Look into your bedroom: is your sex life always exciting, or has it become a habit, a ritual, or, dare I say, a job? Life gets in the way of intimacy—too busy, too tired, too stressed, kids, schedules, travel, a hundred other reasons. But here’s the tru


🌿 Aromatherapy – Supporting the Spirit; Easing the Mind
The aroma of lemongrass oil is instantly energizing — fresh, citrusy, and alive. This oil comes from a fast-growing Indian grass and has long been used to calm the nervous system, reduce fevers, and ease aches. Its scent alone can lift your spirits and sharpen your focus. Bonus: it helps keep stinging insects away (goodbye, mosquitoes). 💫 Supporting the Spirit Lemongrass oil cuts through emotional fog. It brings clarity when your mind feels clouded and your energy is scatte
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