💖 Why Women Get Undressed to Feel More Confident: Exploring Boudoir and Self-Image. Sex'n'fries Podcast Episode 11
- Dec 17, 2020
- 2 min read
Updated: 7 days ago

Why Do Women Need to Feel Beautiful?
Every day, we’re bombarded with images of women that set unrealistic standards for beauty. From magazines and billboards to social media feeds, we’re constantly told what sexy looks like. Professional models, filters, and Photoshop have created ideals so polished they’re nearly impossible to match—and yet we try.
It’s no wonder many women question their bodies: “Am I enough?” “Do I measure up?” The beauty and cosmetic industries make it worse—$500 billion annually—and the average woman spends $150 a year chasing these standards.
Feeling beautiful isn’t vanity—it’s self-preservation. It’s about reclaiming control over how we see ourselves in a world that’s constantly judging.
Self-Confidence vs. Society’s Illusions
Self-confidence is trusting in your own worth, abilities, and judgments. It’s valuing yourself regardless of imperfections or societal expectations. Dressing up, feeling sexy, or even stepping in front of a camera can remind us of the beauty we already possess.
Boudoir Photography captures this inner confidence, offering visual proof that women are stunning, powerful, and desirable—just as they are. Beyond being mothers, sisters, daughters, or wives, women deserve to see themselves as more than their roles.
Behind the Lens: Conversations with Boudoir Photographers
I spoke with talented Boudoir photographers to get their insight into this empowering art form.
Jennifer: “It is not very often you can make a living doing what you adore.” She emphasizes sensitivity to women’s insecurities and helping clients embrace their self-worth.
Marina: “You’re ready. If you’re thinking about it, you are ready.” She highlighted that the nerves women feel before a session often turn into pride and confidence afterward.
Some of the questions I asked:
Why Boudoir?
How long have you been in business?
How do your clients change before and after the shoot?
How does being on the other side of the camera impact your confidence?
Does this confidence last?
The answers confirmed one thing: Boudoir isn’t just photography—it’s therapy, empowerment, and self-love all wrapped in a session that’s fun, daring, and transformative.
My first conversation was with the very talented Jennifer (website)
She has terrific insight into women's sensitivity to looks and self-confidence.
"It is not very often you can make a living doing what you adore."
My following conversation was with the lovely and insightful Marina (website)
"You're ready. If you're thinking about it, you are ready."
Final Fry Thought 🍟
Getting undressed in front of a camera isn’t about exhibitionism—it’s about claiming your power and confidence. Experiencing your body through a lens helps you embrace your unique beauty, reminds you of your strength, and celebrates the real you—beyond societal standards.
So pour a glass of wine, slip into that lingerie, and let yourself see what others already know: you are beautiful, sexy, and unstoppable.
This episode is one of my favorites. We will continue this conversation further, so grab more wine and get ready to explore more about self-confidence.
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