🌟 People Are Not Flawed: Putting Yourself Together. Sex'n'fries Podcast Episode 9

People Are Not Flawed

Products have flaws. They are made by humans and sometimes the design isn’t perfect. But people? People are not broken.

We aren’t put together by others. We are made from our experiences, our learning, and the world around us. Our feelings—joy, sadness, confusion, hurt—are all part of being human. They don’t make us flawed; they make us whole.

Put Yourself Together

You are physical, mental, and spiritual. Every moment, every emotion, every reaction builds the person you are at that point in time. Tomorrow might bring new experiences, and your feelings may change—but you will still be exactly as you should be.

Make the self-connection. Acknowledge your experiences, your emotions, your growth. Remember:

“It is not what happens to you but the way you react to it.”

Everything counts. Everything adds up to who you are.

Walking in Someone Else’s Shoes

Relief, sadness, and longing come with loss. After my dad passed, I wrote:

“Walking in someone else’s shoes will give you sore feet.”

No two people truly experience the same thing the same way. Even when situations seem similar, feelings are unique. We may judge others—but often we cannot truly know their experience.

Instead, try this:

“Don’t walk in my shoes, but walk beside me in case I fall.”

Empathy isn’t about understanding perfectly; it’s about being present.

Final Fry Thought 🍟

You are not broken. You are not flawed. You are put together by life, by experiences, and by your emotions. Walk with yourself, and walk with others—gently, patiently, and with understanding.

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